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Jasjit’s recent posts (I Spy With My Eye) led to an interesting debate on how if all reality is holographic then everything that enters into the ambit of our experience is reflective of our own energy and serves only one purpose i.e. they are simply signs and symbols that help us read into our present state and identify and fine-tune the path of inner discovery and evolution. The crucial question then, as articulated by Annie, is that how do we distinguish between reading the signs and what we commonly refer to as superstitions. To begin to understand this we need to investigate the origin of superstitions.
Superstitions originated from man’s desire to understand nature, his own existence, to invite good fortune, keep away evil and look into the future. For example when man could not understand how or why earthquakes happened he created numerous stories and myths about spirits that belonged to the ‘underworld’ and then set out to try and propitiate them through offerings, prayers and other rituals in the attempt to prevent their occurrence.
It is common to have one superstition lead to the creation of several others. For fear and ignorance which are the parents of superstition, can only perpetuate their own kind endlessly. A good example of this would be the superstition about a black cat crossing your path. It’s said that you should avoid the path of black cats and if, god forbid, one does cross your path you must return home.
The roots of this superstition lie in the Middle Ages. During the time of the Pharaohs in Ancient Egypt cats were worshipped and thought to have magical powers since they killed (the dreaded) snakes, could see extremely well in the dark etc. Clearly a superstition born of ignorance and fear. In the Middle Ages the Christian church however decided that cats were wicked and were actually witches in disguise. This led to a mass slaughtering of cats that ultimately led to the plague. Since the arrival of the plague left little time to focus on the poor cat the species managed a revival and began to kill the mice (who were responsible for spreading the plague). Once the plague had been obliterated (thanks to the cats) the church once again placed the blame squarely on the cats and began to hunt them down again. And so the superstition that ‘cats are evil’ flourished and to this day many flinch when one crosses their path.
I remember when I was about 12 years old, my maternal uncle’s wife was pregnant. She was in her third month of pregnancy when one night I was bathing and had been told by my mother that I must wash my hair. As I contemplated giving the hair wash a skip, a thought came to my mind. “If I don’t wash my hair my aunt is going to lose her baby.” Well I didn’t wash my hair and the next day my aunt was rushed to the hospital and we were told that she had miscarried. Imagine my mortification. For the longest time after (until I was old enough to understand) I felt that I was personally responsible for this tragedy. To add to my sense of guilt was the fact that she would never be able to have any children. Needless to say my relationship with washing my hair became extremely problematic after this incident and resulted in the superstition that if I didn’t do it when I was told to, something awful was bound to happen. In my adult years I realized that I had in fact had a premonition and in my mind had attached it to the guilt of not listening to my mother. When we know that we are doing something that we shouldn’t be, the mind creates superstitions because it expects to be punished. The fear of the consequences of going against moral/societal/parental order can create all kinds of superstitions.
Considering how problematic people’s relationship with their body and the sexual is, and how the church, priest, state and maulvi have all tried to control and suppress it through creating various fears around it, it is not surprising that some of the worst superstitions rule our sexuality. One of the most common superstitions men feed into is that of masturbation rendering them impotent. The roots of this superstition lie in the fear of the leaders of tribes and religions, that if men were able to satisfy themselves sexually they may not desire to procreate and multiply the species. That would mean a slowing down of population, and worse the limited expansion of religions. The Roman Catholic Church in fact still considers masturbation to be a mortal sin.
For women the greatest superstitions exist around menstruation. Since the seeping of blood was always associated with disaster, poor health, death etc. it was generally regarded as a certain sign of calamity and ill-omen. Every month, women who were seemingly healthy began discharging blood. This created an immense amount of fear in people. And so numerous myths and superstitions were born around menstruation and continue to this date. Many of these admonishments against performing various acts expound upon a theme of contamination via touch — that such women will either spoil products in the making through having physical contact with them or cause even unremarkable tasks they're part of to not turn out well.
The list of superstitions is endless and all of us have them, because all of us experience fear. Every act when done out of fear has the potential to become a superstition. Fear is the earliest instinct of man and it dogs him throughout his life to varying degrees. Life is programmed to throw up fear within us because it is devoted to assisting us in uncovering the light within. The formula for superstitions goes like this: the more fearful/ignorant a person you are, the more superstitious you will be.
Signs and symbols teach us about ourselves. Superstitions too are a sign that we are carrying fear within us. Everything that makes up our ambit of experience is there to teach us something about ourself. Learning to read the signs, symbols and experiences in your life is called awareness. Ignorance of and fear towards the signs and symbols of life is superstition. In the single realisation that the universe is not conspiring against you but for you lies the elimination of fear and therefore superstition.
Are you aware of your superstitions?
Posted By Anusheh Hussain - 12:11 PM Thursday 01 June 2006
Hi Elsie
I'm not sure that superstitions do keep craziness in check. And anyway is it not better to rid yourself of the craziness than 'manage' it?
Superstitions cant keep craziness in check because since they dont address the fear at the root of the superstition, the fear continues to grow and the superstitions continue to multiply. It can eventually all lead to a breakdown, even madness. However most of all superstitions keep you from experiencing life in a healthy, relaxed and joyous way, keeping you instead in a constant state of stress and anxiety.
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Anusheh,
This is a really good one! I just can't stand superstitions. Black cats are such a beuuty to watch with their green eyes shining like the emerald.
Here's an example of how we bring together sexuality and superstition. When I was a kid I loved to whistle. I would whistle tunes of many songs, perfect on them, try to make the whistling sound as clear as possible. I would whistle and my sis would guess the song. It was a game.
Often my mom would come a tell me don't whistle. Young girls don't whistle, only road side romeos whistle. But I just couldn't stop whistling. Then I was told that if you whistle then thieves will come at night and rob your house. I asked what did my whistling have to do with robbers. I was told that theives are always lurking around and they might think that my whistle is a sign from their other partners. This scared me and I stopped whistling. Even if I did by mistake I would rush outside the house and check out if there was anybody suspicious lurking around. Then there was another one... If you whistle rag pickers will come and kidnap you (!!!)Makes no sense right?!
As I grew up I realised what hogwash this is and I resumed my whistling and expalined to my parents that this is something that I enjoy, a teeny-weeny talent of mine that I cherish and stopping it would mean hurting my feelings. Thank God they understood and my sis and I resumed our whistling game.
Hi Elsie,
IMO when we follow superstition our entire behavioural pattern is subsumed by fear and many times it has been seen that people who are excessively involved in regulating their activities according to superstitious beliefs become obssessive and in extreme cases neurotic (in other words 'crazy')
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Interesting post on something as common as a cold :) True when one thinks about it we are all full of superstitions of one kind or the other. I mean even the so called intellectuals have superstitions. But as you say its because we all have fears and superstitions act as a cover.
Though I wonder if menstruating women have not seemed more like a threat to man because its linked to the power of creation and the mystery of women's bodies. Creating taboos around them was some way of demeaning their power as creators. Of course women have been stupid enough to not see through this and follow so many mindless superstitions blindly. But I guess that's how they manage their fears. IMO it also helps curb women's sexuality for men have always feared ( not really understood it). What do you think?
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Interesting Read, Anusheh! ; - )
I won't say much because i don't have any personal opinions in this matter. But yes, it's fear/ignorance which leads to superstitions.
Cheers, Rohit
Posted by on June 3, 2006 10:55 AM
Hi Ananya
Definitely. There are more than one reasons for the superstitions that were created around menstruation and the ones you put forward perhaps far more central than the one I mentioned.
Thanks for bringing that up.
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Hi Rohit:-)
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Interesting post Anusheh!
I guess whether one looks at the dark side of life or the light side ( spirituality etc) we have amazing abilities to plant superstitions everywhere. Truly fear if not rooted out in and of itself manages to plant itself in every direction of our life. While 'bad luck' dogs us for all our material attachments/posessions/aspirations similarly sin/bad karma dogs us in spiritual spheres. Even serious seekers/practitioners for the longest time are unaware of how 'superstition' binds them to many rituals and practices.
I guess schools such as Zen and Tantra are unique in that they attack the root of fear first to enable a being to search for his/her 'infinite' self. That must be why they are so exacting in defining the 'unfettered' and labelling everything on the Path including the Buddha a block which must be dropped.
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Anusheh when I see people flinch at seeing a cat or a dog, especially black ones, and say that they are bad omen, it really pisses me off. I mean look at the nerve of such people. They can't handle their own fears and silly anxieties and instead take out all their frustration on animals.
I have heard that in some cultures birth of twin children are considered as bad omen and the mother a witch. I mean can you imagine! This shows the height to which illiteracy and unawareness can take you.
Thanks for the piece! To end with how bizzare superstitions can be... I have heard that menstruating women should not touch pickles because this apparently spoils the pickle!!!!!!
I wonder if there are superstitions which exclusively cater to men? Any of the guys out there know of any such superstitions that you have feared?
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We have lived in the dark ages for quite a long time.We all want good things to happen to us.So the rituals and superstitions were invented so that we dont have to deal with the unfortunate.Even now most of the Indians believe that by doing some kind of ritual or following some kind of obessive pattern would somehow make the bad luck go away.Instead of focussing inside and finding out the ways to deal with any problem and evolving as a spiritual being these shortcuts have become more popular.
Posted by on June 4, 2006 12:46 AM
Dear Anusheh,
Superstitions are things we devise to understand and classify chaos.
life's rules and permutations are chaotic. so we decide that for a good deed to take place we might have to behave in this way or if we behave that way a bad deed might happen for nothing in life is predictable.
life is filled with chaos. calsifying the same has been the eternal endeavour.
lots of love
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oops its classifying. :)
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Hi Diya and Aachi,
Aachi calsifying is perhaps freudian lol because superstition truly does calsify chaos and fear. I dont think it provides any management skills. Yes in our perception life's rules are extremely chaotic but thats only because we keep the whole picture hidden from ourselves. The day one decides to remove the veil all makes absolute sense and is in perfect harmony;-)
lots of love
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Dear Anusheh,
great piece and excellent website.Thankfully I have become less and less superstitious over the years. its amazing how much rubbish is drummed into us from childhood and if and when we finally come to realise that its all 'poppycock' the feeling is liberating at the very least.Life throws enough challenges at all of us and we foolishly create further unneccesary barriers for ourselves by following superstitions- i'm sure you'll agree!
love to both you and Jasjit.
Sangeet.
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Hi Sangeet
Thanks. Its good to see you here.
love
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hi ppl,
saw this blog on superstition and thought i'd ask - today is 06/06/06 ... any thoughts on this (remember - "the omen 666" ??)
any significance of this date ... ??? there must be something someone might have to say to this ... is there?
looking fwd to some nice answers.
:)
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i also want to know the significance of 666..the only thing is the movie OMEN is releasing on 6.06.06..
Posted by on June 7, 2006 03:03 AM
Hi Diya and :-)
666 is associated with the number of the devil. Here's why.
Apparently the number 666 had significant importance in the pagan rituals of the Babylonian Religion. The priests of Babylon taught astrology as well as numerology and considered the 666 number to have magical powers. Eventually the priests moved to rome and settled in such large numbers there so that Rome began to be called the 'New Babylon". When christianity came along it incorporated the practices and beliefs of the Babylonian priests. This made it easy for the followers of the Babylonian religion to convert to christianity.
The Book of revelation speaks of the number 666 with negative connotations and condemns Babylon because of the incorporation of pagan practices into the church.Though the bible was clearly against pagan practices the church brought them in regardless and the priests of Babylon continued to make amulets based on numerology.
"Here is wisdom. He who has understanding, let him calculate the number
of the beast, for it is the number of a man. His number is six hundred sixty-six."
-Revelations chapter 13, Verse 18
This was basically the beginning of the propaganda around 666 as far as I know. If both of you manage to find something else I would be very interested to know.:-)
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thanx Anusheh...
I think even the friday the 13 th being a unlucky day has sprung out from similar propaganda
Posted by on June 7, 2006 02:28 PM
Hi Diya, yeah you're right about friday the thirteenth. That one has to do with thirteen people at the Last Supper (Christ) and the thirteenth one was Judas who apparently betrayed Christ and so we have Friday the thirteenth.
:-)
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Anusheh what a post!
So it seems like Ektaaaaa Kapoor carries some strong fear within her. Why? Well just read in the papers that she chooses her actors not on the grounds of their acting skills but... hold your breath... on the grounds of whether their Kkkkkundali matches that of Balaji productions and her own! Man! Now that is what I call being Superstitious!
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Hi Simran
Glad you found the post interesting. Well yes Ekta definitely sounds superstitious. The info you've provided explains a lot about her serials:-). Cant say I'm a fan of hers.
But who isnt superstitious? Some more obviously out there like Ekta and then others carry more subtle kinds of superstitions. But I think they hit all of us at some level or the other, what do you think?
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I guess your'e right. All of us at some level are superstitious. What is interesting to note is that many subtler superstitions have got so ingrained in us that they have become a part of our instinctual habit! Jaisey ki koi agar kahin nikalney se pehle cheek mare toh woh khudba khud kuch der key liye ruk jata hain. Meaning we do it as an instant reaction.
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Good point Simran
Superstition has to turn into mindless habit because its so deeply ingrained in us.
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Sure thing fear weds you to superstition and then keeps you there. But IMO superstitions also help keep people's 'crazyiness' in check for otherwise they would never manage their behaviour. Like you said some scientific facts slowly became superstition because people were just too stupid to get it. Though of course superstitions can also be so stupid. O.K I'm a little confused now..
:)