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Oprah Winfrey recently did a show on a young boy who was lured into becoming a porn star by a ring of pedophiles. Justin was thirteen, an honors student and class president. In his free time he ran a small but lucrative business of designing websites. It all started when Justin bought himself a small web camera with the hope of meeting new friends on the net. He joined a popular website for young people and posted his profile. In response instant messages began to immediately pop up on his computer.
“Justin had no idea that most of his new friends were actually adults posing as teenagers. In fact he had entered an online community of pedophiles who (it was later found out) were discussing a strategy and carefully planning his seduction.
It started with one man telling Justin that he’d pay him $50 to take off his shirt. Justin agreed as he didn’t really find anything offensive about doing that and was told to log on to an online payment website to accept payment. The requests slowly got bolder and soon Justin was masturbating online for his new ‘friends’. Up until this point he really didn’t think there was anything wrong with what he was doing for in his own words “I was doing what most 13-year-old boys do in their room, and I was getting paid for it.”
In addition to the money he was making the Pedophiles got Justin to set up a wish list for himself of all the cool computer gadgets he wanted. These would then be mailed to him on a regular basis as ‘gifts’. Justin still didn’t feel there was any threat to him because as far as he was concerned no one knew where he lived.
By age 16, Justin's young face had become extremely popular among Internet pedophiles. Fans began asking to meet him in person. One businessman offered Justin thousands of dollars to fly to Las Vegas for the weekend. Justin agreed, telling his parents he was attending a computer convention with a friend. When he arrived in Las Vegas, he was repeatedly sexually molested by the man who had lured him there.
When Justin returned home, the man continued to exploit him. He paid for a secret apartment for Justin just minutes from his parents' home, allowing him to spend more time on his webcam.
Justin's webcam activity was finally uncovered when a classmate found the pornographic footage online, made copies and passed them out to classmates. Embarrassed and scared that his mother would find out about his secret life, Justin asked his mother permission to visit his father in Mexico.
He arrived in Mexico with plenty of cash from his webcam business. When his father asked him where he had gotten so much money, Justin told him the truth.
After the truth was out, Justin says his father didn't stop him from producing pornographic material…he actually offered to help "maximize the earning potential," Justin says.
Justin says that with his father's assistance, he created his most sophisticated website yet. Before long, the website had more than 1,000 adult subscribers who paid monthly fees to watch Justin perform in live sex shows.”
This is just one horrific case story of many. For every pedophile who stalks the streets there are hundreds who stalk the Internet. It’s extremely easy for a child to wander into the dangerous waters of the Internet where Child Predators lurk.
The Internet is allowing Child Predators to form online communities and bonds like never before. For the first time pedophiles have instant access to other predators worldwide. They use this access to discuss and share their sexual desires and debate new ways of luring/seducing children. They’re networking to learn how to better their chances of escaping law enforcement agencies and they’re patting each other on the back for indulging in these heinous crimes.
They are more organized and have more access to children than ever before. The Internet provides pedophiles with any number of disguised identities (including presenting oneself as a child) to approach and build relationships with millions of children worldwide. They have ready access to children’s spaces on the web like Teen Chat Rooms where they hang around and identify potential victims, and they have the means to identify and track down children’s home/school contact information. The Internet provides the ideal platform through which to build long-term relationships with children prior to taking sexual advantage of them. This access over time gives them the additional benefit of being able to educate and induct children into their way of thinking. One proclaimed offender for example, was teaching children online how to manipulate parents so they do not "cause problems," how to answer questions about their on-going sexual relationship, how to type in responses to sexually oriented questions being sent from a chat room etc.
The sense of community and support that pedophiles are discovering for each other through the net have helped them become bolder and more aggressive in the ways in which they describe and brag about their sexual encounters with children online. They’re telling each other that its okay to do what they do and that there is a whole brotherhood around to help protect and support them.
For all the above reasons the Internet has become the most favored route for Pedophiles to take. Child predators are exceptionally skilled in being able to diagnose vulnerability in children. Children who are needy for love, are troubled in some way and or depressed are high on the target list of Child Predators.
Here are some frightening statistics:
Law enforcement officials estimate that as many as 50,000 sexual predators are online at any given moment (Dateline, January 2006).
One in five children who use computer chat rooms have been approached over the Internet by pedophiles. (Detective Chief Superintendent Keith Akerman, Telegraph.co.uk January 2002).
Almost one in eight youth ages 8-18 discovered that someone they were communicating with online was an adult pretending to be much younger (Internet Safety: Realistic Strategies & Messages for Kids Taking More and More Risks Online. December 21, 2005. Polly Klaas Foundation. February 17, 2006
Nine out of 10 children aged between eight and 16 have viewed pornography on the Internet. In most cases, the sex sites were accessed unintentionally when a child, often in the process of doing homework, used a seemingly innocent sounding word to search for information or pictures. (London School of Economics January 2002).
Statistics show that child pornography is the fastest-growing of all Internet businesses, estimated to bring in several billion dollars a year.
Whereas personal arousal is definitely one reason for collecting child pornography, pedophiles also use it to desensitize and educate potential child victims. Pedophiles refer to it as the ‘grooming’ phase. During this phase children are skillfully introduced to child pornography amidst other ‘enticing’ games. This allows pedophiles to lower children’s resistance to sex by making it appear to be ‘cool’, ‘normal’ and something which other kids are doing – a sure shot winner with children. Child pornography is therefore not just a degenerate and perverted form of entertainment but also used as a weapon to create new victims.
Child pornography proliferates on the Internet and here is the evidence:
The U.S. Customs Service estimates that there are more than 100,000 websites offering child pornography – which is illegal, worldwide. (Red Herring Magazine, 1/18/02)
More than 20,000 images of child pornography are posted on the Internet every week. (National Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Children, 10/8/03)
There has been a 345% increase in child pornography sites from 2/2001 – 7/2001. (N2H2 press release, 8/01)
26 popular children’s characters, such as Pokemon, My Little Pony, and Action Man, revealed thousands of links to porn sites. 30% were hard-core. (Envisional 2000) Pornographers disguise their sites (i.e. “stealth sites) with common brand names, including Disney, Barbie, ESPN, etc., to entrap children. (Cyveillance Study, March 1999)
So what did happen to Justin? Well he got lucky because a New York Times reporter stumbled upon his website by accident and decided that he was going to rescue him. He read the online discussions and realized that there was a group of men who were keeping track of Justin’s every breathing moment. And he decided to do something about it.
Kurt Eichenwald managed to track Justin down through the Internet and after several conversations, convinced him to meet him. When Kurt met Justin he was ‘emaciated and on drugs’. “Justin opened up to Kurt and described the dark underworld of "camkids"—children who use webcams to produce pornography. He also described how credit card corporations and other adult enterprises helped him operate his business. Kurt knew that this story wasn't just about Justin—there were many more victims out there.
’By that point, I knew that this kid was at the center of a massive criminal enterprise—that he knew everything," Kurt says. "I had to get him to flip on a business that was paying him thousands of dollars a week. I had to get him to the point where he was sober so that he could talk to me. And he said, 'I'll do it.'"
Justin shut down his website and over the next six months helped Kurt navigate through the huge industry of child pornography on the Internet. Justin also had five years of saved online discussions and financial transaction records with his clients, a huge help in tracking down his predators. Of the 1500 customers that Justin had a sample was taken of 300 and a research conducted as to their professional backgrounds. They turned out to be teachers, lawyers, pediatricians and counselors. All professions that involve direct contact with children.
Even though Justin’s name was blacked out on all federal investigation documents, the alleged offenders were able to figure out his identity and have been harassing him since. Since the word spread in the child pornography community Justin has received several death threats. He now lives in hiding.
Not every child is as lucky though. Justin’s story, as tragic as it is, is also rare, not in terms of exploitation, but in how he managed to escape the trap of sexual exploitation. So here’s my question: if Justin is not able to heal the rage, humiliation and shame of this experience, if somehow his faith in the light of life is not restored, if his own sense of courage, wisdom to overcome the inner victim and ability to transform pain to strength do not become overwhelming powers, is it improbable to assume that Justin might grow up and turn a pedophile himself? And finally if child pornography is the fastest growing porn on the net does it not make you wonder that many more people are pedophiles than we like to think?
Posted By Anusheh Hussain - 12:22 PM Saturday 25 March 2006
Well Chaitali all one can do is educate and make children aware of the dangers out there and also keep a watch on their net activities. You get lots of software which can help you block out porn sites etc for kids...I think Harvinder mentioned one in one of her comments on the Pornograpy thread. But considering that lots of these sites come up with innocuous search terms like pokemon and barbie which are so popular with kids the most important thing for a parent to do is keep vigil.
As for kids like Justin, he's going to have to do tremendous work on healing himself because he now carries an entire sexual persona created by pedophilia and pornography. His desires, his notions and his fantasies of the sexual are all rooted here and unless he manages to expel them from his being he will continue to be a victim of his experiences, and perhaps an agressor too.
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Dear Anusheh, Chsaitali,
there is a lovely movie starring Nicolas Cage called 8mm.
While reading through the post I remembered a dialogue from the movie:
"You dont change the devil....the devil changes you."
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oopss....that should have been Chaitali...
something is wrong with my typing these days. :)
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Anusheh what a hard hitting fact! It's a whole nexus out there!
A family friend of mine was once very distressed with all this. She said that even if I keep a vigil on his habits what is the gaurentee that he won't watch all this in his friend's house or outside. It's tough being a parent these days.
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I agree Annie it is tough being a parent nowadays especially. I guess if you're bringing up children well, then you dont have to be worried about them sneaking and doing things behind your back. The key is developing a friendship with your child and allowing reason and trust to build the foundations of that and not arbitrary injunctions. I think children do listen and they do respond with responsibility and understanding, provided the same is given to them.
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Thanks Anusheh for a really well written and informative piece. I just have two things to say. First, Justin's story was really sad. Secondly, in the west they have people like Oprah, a great police service, child protection agencies etc., whereas we just have the net with all its 'virtues'. How are we going to protect our children?
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Dear Radhika,
I guess for the time being we'll all have to be Oprah and take up the cause in our own indvidual ways.
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Dear Anusheh,
My first reaction after reading your piece - "Just stop the whole Internet business". But then I realised that that is a foolish thing to say. But it was really distressing to read about Justin.
"26 popular children’s characters, such as Pokemon, My Little Pony, and Action Man, revealed thousands of links to porn sites."
Playing with a child's innocence .... horrendous!
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Well Shubhz thats the whole point. Pedophiles convince themselves that what they do is actually in the best interest of the child. They use arguments like sexuality is so natural that to keep children away from exploring it is in fact an illegal and insane act. As for the net well I guess everything in life has its light and dark side. If you access it with your light then its a joy and when you access it with the darkness inside you then its a curse.
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Anusheh
That is amazing amount of information, you have provided consisting of facts, stories, statistics et al.
At first, the post, being a parent of a teenager, scares the daylights out of you. The mind starts racing in every corner, I started analyzing my child and our parenting skills. I immediately started checking the history on the computer and also scanned the websites that my daughter logs onto.
Then I realised how foolish I was being. Not only was I undermining our parenting, but I was also and most importantly distrusting my own child, without a cause for such a reaction, so far.
Am I then saying that you have scared me, well, yes? But only enough to deal with the knowledge provided in the post in a smart and positive way. I am actually glad that I am scared because, I am now better informed.
I guess than that translates into I will now inform my children better.
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Dear Madhavi
Thanks. It was great to read your post. I don't think you have anything to worry about because you're obviously a mum who's on the ball:-)
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Hey I wanted to share this bit of news with you guys but have been sort of busy. A few weeks back read this article in the news about a young girl being date raped. As I was reading I hit upon a para in it and was reminded of the articles on porn on the blog. The guys who raped her were watching porn film while raping her. Police found porn films, video and tv in the room where the crime was committed.
I wanted to scream and tell everyone of those people who have been saying there is nothing wrong with porn that look what is happening in reality.
The news came up in TOI main paper. The incident was in Mumbai. It hapened in march so anyone who wishes to reconfirm can check the net. I'll try and see if I can get the date.
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Hey Annie, thanks for sharing that. I did happen to come across that news. Apparently the boys put on porn videos and watched them whilst they gangraped her. What can one say beyond that.
Posted by
well, in its absolute and unbiased undoctrined sense, pedophilia is nothing more than a sexual attraction.
if pedophilia expressions should be criminalised
then so should expressions of scorn! People with
an unwillingness to cope with other peoples likes
should be jailed too.
after all, why tolerate the intolerant.
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only sug.
Posted by on January 17, 2007 08:27 PM
hey chaitali and anusheh....some really interesting insights there....im doing a project on pedophilia...just wondering, if u guys have done some work on it...a few inputs
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Hi Reynolds,
Can you be a bit more specific as to what sort of info on pedophilia you are looking for?
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Well... some "educated" people can be so...
Here's a proof.
http//www dot translatorscafe dot com/cafe/MegaBBS/thread-view dot asp?threadid=8807&start=51&posts=53
And Jasjeet may remember this. It really reminded me of a couple of things from Sakshi.
Just angry.
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Dear Anusheh,
When I was reading the para on how Pedophiles 'groom' their victims I was telling myself 'My god and that is how they are creating new entrants into the pedophile community too.' It's like a cycle victim-perpetrator-victim-perpetrator. As we go deeper into porn it gets scarier. How does one heal Justin and others like him so that they don't get caught in the vicious cycle?